How to talk to Hot Women

My 2 cents in helping attractive BORED women find some fun in life.. (Well, I obviously cannot be there for all of you!! ;-) Credits: David DeAngelo

First, I'd like you to think about the last
time you saw a really attractive woman... you
wanted to go over and talk to her, but for
whatever reason you just didn't do it. I'm talking
about a REALLY hot woman.

Take your time if you need it. I'm not going
anywhere.

Good.

Now, let me ask you something:

Did you ever stop a day or two after one of
these situations happened to think about where
that particular woman might be, and what she might
be doing?

Did you ever stop to think about what the rest
of her day was like after she walked by you?

About the ten or twenty other men that saw her
that day who didn't have the nerve to talk to
her... and the two or three that did...?

About the, most likely, BORING job that she
went to, the same-old-same-old "Wow, you're
beautiful" lines that she heard from the guys who
got up the nerve to talk to her?

Did you ever consider that it might be useful
to take a little time out and consider what it
might be like to be an attractive woman, walking
through life having almost every man you see light
up with the "Whoa" look?

Hmmm...

What do you think we might be able to figure
out if we just took a few minutes to explore what
that attractive woman's PRIVATE life is like?

Here are a few things that I've come up with:

1) Most attractive women are BORED OUT OF THEIR
MINDS by most men. One of the reasons for this is
that guys have NO IDEA what to do when they run
into an attractive woman, so they do the same
default thing: Dumb look, compliment.

2) As I've said before, and I'm sure I'll say
many, many, many times in the future: You can't
BORE a woman into feeling attracted to you. If
she's most likely got a boring life like everyone
else, and you do something that every one of the
other 499 guys she's going to walk by this month
did, then you're probably not going to attract any
special attention.

3) If you just start with the idea of NOT DOING
WHAT OTHER GUYS DO you will be WAAAAYYYY ahead of
the game.

Wow, this is fun, isn't it? Bet you never
thought you'd be thinking like a woman, did ya?

So, what are a few things you might do to?

Maybe NOT be like the other 499 boring,
predictable, "nice" loser guys she encountered?

And maybe BE interesting, attractive,
attention-getting in a way that makes her feel
like you might actually be someone to provide her
with a pinch of spice in her life?

I thought you'd never ask...

And, as you may have already predicted, I have
a few more ideas of my own (but don't let that
stop you from thinking about this on your own as
often as you get a chance).

To start with, you'd probably want to get rid
of the "Wow, you're a beautiful woman, and I'm
just an average guy admiring you" vibe. That's not
helping.

Next, you could take a moment and think about
how a guy that she would feel ATTRACTED to might
act... then choose that style.

My experience is that if you take an attitude
of "I guess fate has good taste putting us in the
same place, now let's see if you have a
personality to match your looks", then stir in a
generous portion of Cocky & Funny, you're likely
to do well.

Here's a variation of something I've used
myself once or twice:

YOU: "Hey, can I ask you a quick question?"
(leaning back and playing it cool, talking cool
and slow)

HER: "Sure"

(pause.. pause.. pause for suspense)

YOU: "Are you single?" (stone cold straight face)

HER: "Well, um..."

YOU: "I'll take that as a yes..." (nodding, sly
smile)

HER: (Laughter)

YOU: "Well, I just happen to know someone that I
think might really like you... if you're more than
just a pretty face, that is... He's funny, has
great taste, and I think you'd like him... I'd
love to sit down and get your life story, but I'm
on my way somewhere... do you have email?" (very
cool, calm tone of voice)

HER: "Yes."

YOU: Great... (takes out pen)... write it down for
me, and I'll have, uh (clears throat) HIM send you
an email."

(Get email and wish the lady a good day.)

Now, let's talk about what just happened here.

First off, did I give her any compliments? Did
I act like the other 499 guys? Did I instantly
communicate that "I'm not worthy"?

HELL NO.

I said, "Hey, can I ask you a quick question?"
in a very laid back, almost too relaxed and
mysterious tone of voice (your body language is a
VERY important component of this approach...

Anyone will respond to that with a "yes".

Next, I did something kind of fun: I asked her
DIRECTLY if she was single.

LOL... I really love this one. It's so fun.
Most guys will say, "Uh, I'll bet you have a
boyfriend, huh?" or "So, do you have a man?" or
some other lame thing.

The question, "Are you single?", takes women
off guard. It's great. And then being assumptive
when she hesitated with an answer... in a cocky &
funny way... magic.

Next, I followed up with a cocky, funny, semi-
confusing little bit about "knowing someone" that
might find her interesting. Now, she might think
that it's really ME, but she won't know FOR SURE
until she gets the email.

And even then you might play with her a bit...
"So, what did you think of my friend? I think he
might like you..." etc.

The point is, I can pretty much guarantee you
that this particular sequence hasn't happened to
her lately.

She's still trying to overcome her sheer awe
about how many guys in a row can ask "Don't I know
you from somewhere?"

This kind of fun approach will be a welcome
breath of fresh air.

Now, I want you to do something. Go back and
READ IT AGAIN... VERY CAREFULLY. Imagine it
happening exactly like it's written. Try to
imagine it in a few different settings. Work on it
until you can clearly see it happening in your
mind's eye. (The reason I can see it clearly is
because I've done it so many times in real life!)

OK, so now you know how to approach women.

So, go on... have fun... but for God's sake, do not compliment her ;-)